Jan 12, 2011

Why is Chinese mom more superior?

The article is about a Chinese mom forcing her children to do what is best for them, and how she did it to help the kids success. There are some points that I agree with her, and some others I don't. The parts that the mom take good care of her two kids are really well, but a little bit too tight. The kids doesn't have any freedom to do what they want. Sometimes, it is also good for the kids to have a little freedom and not only control in the little world of their moms. When some children really can't do something, forcing them is not a good idea, but if they have even a little chance, they will be success. Also, insulting your own kids may be a way to motivate them because they don't want to be insult any more so they will improve. But, if use too much of insulting and no praising, it might make the children think that the parents don't like them, and they might just give up. When the child grow up, some might remember the way they are trained, but some just don't. If they didn't or have no motivation without their parents insults, they will think they do great if praised easily.

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